Love Is Blind

 According to the wisdom of Kabbalah, Love is the will to satisfy other people's desires. It (LOVE) is sort of a special commitment, It helps in staying together in thick and thin, sharing good and bad circumstances, and enjoy every bit of a moment together. It is an invisible bond, though it can be compared as an adhesive bond.

Although there are many definitions available in the market as every individual eye carries its own ability to see differently. I want to add one more, (I have my own eyes too, XD:), It is the selfless Art of giving.

As the title of this blog says: Love Is Blind. In most of the questions we took ("is" as "equal {=}") in Maths, let's apply this to the title, which concluded as (Love = Blind). Love is an invisible bond between two(although this variable can be extended up to 3,4,5 etc,.). Now, the question arises, bond?. Bond comprises of feeling, pain, understanding, *expectation, sharing, **ignorance, listening, suggestions, respecting, accepting, responsibility, *honesty, wishing, praying,**sacrifices.

 All these are those sorts of vibes that can only be felt or expressed. In long and short, it(Love) is comprised of abstract nouns. I hope you all have been able to understand the concept behind, Love is Blind. Don't forget, we will cross that bridge when we come to it, but I believe in "let the cat out of the bag".

In some cases, we used to overcome the bitter truth of Love Is Blind. I.e to convert Blind into Eagled eye. They used to work hard, try to fulfill every dream, tear themselves up just to provide the pieces of their own skin, ignore themselves, ignore the tradition, act as cooler in summer, and a blower in winter. Just to show that Love is Not Blind. Sometimes( ops sorry, it is *most of the times) people used to ignore the fact that's why instead of throwing the vibrations of love we have to show and obviously, we can show anything by doing actions, indeed "Actions speaks louder than words". But don't forget the statement "Love is Blind"  is as real as the word "Omnipotent". **Invisible hand played a major role in comparison to Real hand**--Hope you all will understand, if not I'll help.

According to English grammar, there are only two types of gender male and female. The love between male and female, between male and male, or between female and female, can be easily described if the subject could be "Family". A man named "John" was a sort of guy who believes in, "Don't count the chicken before they hatch or every cloud has a silver lining". He was free as clouds everything is going fine. After two years of marriage, the child bore, and they named him "Stalin". 

As "Stalin" grew older and older the weight of responsibilities on the shoulder of "John" had been increasing along with. The change in nature of "John" was not drastic in fact he was also not aware of that and "John" had become accustomed to his nature and he started feeling that it was already in his blood. But for "Stalin" it was like a "bolt from the blue" sort of situation. As we are all aware that interaction in a synchronized way results in the amplification of waves. Similarly happened in the case of "Stalin" and "John". The day had also come when "Stalin" started ignoring "John" calls and respond only to the queries neither above nor below talks happened between them. "Stalin" started avoiding things or events which bring them closer/ together.

Okay! what we have observed till now is that, change in nature is directly proportional to responsibilities. Earlier "John" was free as clouds; later after attaining responsibilities, he got trapped in a cage-like structure. "Stalin" started thinking "familiarities breeds contempt". But what I think is that "It takes two to tango".

One day he told his mother "Vijeta" that "I don't know what he("John") is up to, He always called strictly, I think he has kept something negative in his heart for me as I haven't started taking responsibilities or maybe due to other reasons. "Vijeta," told "Stalin", that was not true at all my son, I think you get him wrong, Don't blame your father like that, He is your father.

I know mamma, that he is my father but still. You have seen, how strictly he used to call, he never ever asked me about my day, we never talked normal for weeks, every dad is earning, every dad is looking to their families, did every dad behave like that, mamma?. You know what mamma, I have seen a father and his child playing in the playground and then I thought when was the last time we(me and my father) spend time together. All the secrets I used to share with you, the amount of money that I want I remember you. What role daddy is playing, is that of earning and giving money only? this is it mamma? no more things left ahead of earning or responsibilities?

Son, you are taking in a wrong way, every father's-son's love is eternal and it is not blind love. They never used to show. You and your father are "like two peas in a pod". Father is like "iron", and the only thing which can destroy "iron" is his own "rust", so please stop being "rust", "Stalin". Instead of discouraging his efforts, try to learn from him, he was showing you the best path out of experiencing other paths by himself. The boldness in his voice, the strictness in his nature, the patience power in his behavior, the power to bear the scorching light just to provide shadow to the family, a million-dollar smile on his face ARE THE QUALITIES OF FATHER. In a nutshell, Father's love is "a blessing in disguise".

Instead of complaining try to prove the capabilities that innate in you. And please stop judging your father. I know it's not your father's fault, as a matter of fact, the less the person shows, the less he/she is praised for the doings. By the way, "Stalin", inspire instead of discouragement, gets motivated instead of demotivating, become active instead of passive[in ref. to Grammar], spread light instead of darkness, instead of doing banter talks try to show him that his efforts are not going in vain, learn from your father, my son, try to learn from your father.

The conclusion is, that I tried to mold the concept behind "Love is Blind". The love behind his's father nature is not visible to "Stalin", for him his father's love is blind love for him. There are many instances out there where it is not visible, and where it is not visible, there it won't get any respect or in other/simple language we can say, "uss pyar ki koi kadar ni hote".

Above i wrote one line that, "invisible hand played a major role in comparison to real one" means sometimes some outsider seems to be more lovable than the people around us.

So, stop begging or searching for love we ourselves filled with lots of love, try to find in yourself rather than searching outside in this 21st century where everyone acts like a think tank of love.

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If you still won't be able to decode this blog, try to replace "BLIND" with "INVISIBLE", in every stanza of this blog.