The Minuscule things cannot be seen by naked eyes. Similar to this, The topic which I want to discuss is unnoticed, or we can say, we used to turn's our back on it. Here I want to direct your eyes towards "equality, carrying the same perspective for everyone". Let's go through it and see how.
There was a family consist of 4 members father, mother, and their children{Boy(Adam) and Girl(Eve)}.
They are a middle-class family. Father used to job in the corporate sector and as a usual mother is a house maker, both the children were in their nineteens and twenties. As a daily routine Eve's mother used to cook food for the family and routinely Eve, helped her mother like washing utensils and cleaning the kitchen, "oh, I forgot telling you about Adam, he is still sleeping, commonly till 11am".
Eve, as of helping nature, assist her mother in dusting, placing the things in the right place i.e they both have done all the work till Adam woke up, "as a daily routine".
Now, its brunch time for them around 12:30pm. After brunch, eve used to take utensils and washed by herself, and keep them orderly, "things are not done yet", now she has to prepare a green tea for her mother. As a habit or we can say as a caring nature, she accustomed to cleans the brunch table, Adam went into his room, plugged his earphone, and start doing what he usually does i.e watching movies/listen to music/hovering Instagram account, etc.
In the end, eve always bearing the brunt of all the chaos or for any nuisance.
till now, I think you all have understood, what I want to convey, "no", don't worry, why I am here, let's disclose the truth or break the chain,
*Turning Point*
One day Eve asked her mother "why you always call my name for every donkey work? why boys always have all the fun? why Adam doesn't wake up early in the morning and help you out? why he won't have the perspective which I carry frequently? why should I do all the work? why you don't argue with him? why? "mommy" why?
is it because I m a girl, and all these responsibilities belong to me?
Eve said, Adam "I know you love to live a sedentary lifestyle" but you have to take an exit and see how to forced ourself to come out from the comfort zone to listen to mommy or daddy to do a certain work or any sort of tiny work "even for switching the lights", how to take responsibility for your own work, how not to blame others for your own mistake, learn to do every bit of task by yourself, now its time to for HE to work or take responsibilities as Her.
Here, I want to convey that it is not the duty of an Eve to take care of every little issue, she also carries her own life, she also wants to
spend time on mobile or by watching t.v after eating, want to say "no" to mommy, or "I am busy right now, call Adam",
Eve just wants Adam should participate and look beyond his own self-interest and try to make Eve's life a little bit easy/comfortable.
As a writer, I would like to ask, is it really a problem? these issues are tangible? have you experienced it in the 21st century? do you see this as a misfortune or you just flushed it out after reading? just think about it.
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These kind of issues are common but are really rare .But as child it is our responsibility to help our parents no matters whether whether girl or boy.
ReplyDeleterarity, that's why i compared it with minuscule. It is not the matter between parents and children, it is the matter between siblings. Eve know, it is her responsibility, but i(as a author) stressed on something else.
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ReplyDeleteI think there is a lack of understanding between them. This problem is so dwarf, and ignored most of the time, which leads to person filled with resentmets. Eve has done the right thing, by taking her own stand and via communicating with his brother.
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you are right :)
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